Be His

Be his energy,

be his peace.

Be his quiet,

be his heartbeat.

Understand what these words mean. Understand so that you give him what he needs. So that he gives you what you need.

Quiet his storm from this


filled with negativity.

Listen with your eyes.

Be slow to speak.

Process the moments

that confusion occurs.

For the wicked one,

he quietly hungers.

Waiting for the opportunity

to divide and conquer………

Be his energy,

be his peace.

Be his quiet,

be his heartbeat………..Be his.


Be Mindful

Be mindful of the negative thoughts. Stay consciously aware so that you can minimize the number of negative thoughts and start to make positive choices. Surround yourself with positivity “on purpose.” This means walking away from negativity.

Most importantly, love yourself first then love others without expectations……..

Good stuff!

Deflecting accountability “Passing the Buck”

Deflection, It has become the norm. Blaming others for your own personal choices. We say that the Millennial generation are privileged and spoiled brats. But I listen to some adults “Baby Boomers” and I know why the children are this way. Not too many adults are capable of understanding or accepting accountability for their actions or reactions.

Before you respond or react to any situation you must “understand” that God gives you control of your mind, your thoughts, your perceptions and your interpretations. How you receive messages are your choice. I often hear people say “you made me think” or “You said to me”. Instead of saying “this is my interpretation of what you said”.

Be mindful that when you approach a misinterpreted subject you do not want to accuse based on personal perception or interpretation because the person you’re talking to will feel attacked even if attacking is not your intent. Mainly because you’re telling someone that they have control of your mind and thoughts, which of course is nonsense.

It gives me headaches when I constantly have to say “I can’t control other’s interpretation”.

Yes, I am saying that I am without fault of how you responded based on what you heard me say. Because if you did not understand or if what I said leaves question. Then your responsibility is to have full understanding before you leave the conversation.

This world is reeking with madness. People are killing and causing harm to the lives of others for the sake of passing the buck and deflecting accountability. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Be well

Do you feel me?

I accept people where they stand. People are who they are. So I accept what you give me. No chaser.

I don’t think people get what I’m saying, so today I guess I need to explain:

If you are rude, I accept you as such.

If you are kind, I accept you as such.

If you are a liar, religious or spiritual, I accept you as such.

If you are a sensitive person, a gossiper, rich or homeless.

“I accept you as such.”

I do not treat people any differently. I do not pass judgments. For I am not God. So you won’t see changes in me towards another person based on how “you” feel about them.

I give love openly and freely because everyone deserves love. The MOST HIGH loves us without strings. Love is the greatest gift we can give or receive. Love is not a bargaining chip. That’s why it’s so hard for some people to understand when it’s given to them freely because it is without attachments.

My personal relationships I value and treat differently from my work and social relationships. If we work together it is only in that capacity that I choose to have you in my life. Some of my work relationships are very limited some are a little more open depending on how “I choose” to give of myself.

I pray for this world constantly because I truly know the lies we are fed daily as we walk upon this earth injecting and pushing personal opinions and beliefs upon each other. Losing composure and resorting to meanness and wrongdoing because people do not accept.

I do not have control of people actions therefore I am not a victim of their consequences unless I involve myself in their actions.

I do not live inside other people’s emotions or their madness. No, I am not cold, heartless or arrogant as I have been charged. I know the truth and I live my life based on the knowledge that God gives us domain over “ourselves” that’s it. I only have control of who I am, “my choices” and “my actions”. Therefore I get to choose how I live my life and how I have you in my life.

I just get tired of people expecting me to respond to life situations with what they would consider a normal response.

Then just call me an “Anomaly”.


My choice, my happiness

My life is not the life I cultivated it to be some choices I made were not the best choices. But this day I make the choice to be happy.

Do you know how hard it is to constantly struggle to be happy rather than just being happy on purpose.

Bad things happen, life doesn’t go the way you plan it. God is in control of all. God gave me “free will” I am only allowed to choose for myself. In choosing for myself I know that each choice has an action and a consequence good or bad I must accept and continue to move forward and be okay with my choices. Sometimes I get stuck in the consequences because I try to control the results. That’s when I know that my mind, heart and soul-spirit are not connected and all three must be in agreement for true happiness.

The mind alone wanders, the heart alone seek pleasure but the soul which is your direct connection to God is your driver. The soul tells you the truth and will not steer you wrong, but all three must connect for God to work within you. So I pray and strive everyday for that connection, that peace and the happiness it brings…… well

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